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Support Shilaben's Community Marriage Initiative for Tribal Couples

Background

The city of Navsari in Gujrat is home to a sizeable tribal community. Neha Patel ji who works closely in the region along with her mother Shilaben Patel, spent time with the Schedule Tribe families last month. She heard unbelievable stories of abject poverty in the poor Tribal communities.

These families are so poor that they cannot even perform a simple ceremony for the marriage of their young people. They have developed a ritual called the “Biscuit Rasm” (biscuit ritual) which has now become prevalent in the ST community. In this ritual, the bride's family offers a few Parle-G biscuits to groom's family which symbolizes the marriage.

The couple start off a new chapter of their lives in such a manner with no formal marriage solemnized. There are hundreds of such couples who live together as husband and wife after this ritual. Apart from the social angle, such marriage does not confer any legal sanctity and especially exposes the brides to risks in case the union does not work.

A Resolve to bring dignity to these marriages

The mother and daughter duo Shilaben and Neha Patel decided to bring dignity and a little celebration to these marriages. This has led them to organize a community marriage on 19th April 2019, Shradha Mandir at village Kavrej, Vasda Tehsil, Navsari, Gujrat for of 35 couples from Tribal community. They are supported in their endeavour by Jan Swabhiman Welfare Society.


Funding

Marriage expense for each couple is estimated to cost around INR 30 thousand. This includes the cost of clothes for bride & groom, gifts and wedding arrangements. The total amount for the marriage for the 35 couples is expected to be around INR 10.5 lakh

Goal of this Campaign

The goal of this campaign is to raise INR 10.5 lakh towards marriage expense so that the couples can be married with no financial burden to them. We request you to bless these young couples with your generous donations so that the marriage can be solemnized

About Me

My name is Ashutosh Joshi and I am based in Delhi-NCR working as Manager Finance for a large MNC. Inspired by the dynamic leadership of our Prime Minister Shri Narendra Modi, I have decided to do my bit by helping our Nation’s grass root heroes. I am the moderator of this campaign. I have raised upwards of INR 85 lakh for our grass root heroes in the campaigns listed below:

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Ask for an update
12th May 2019
Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the love and support.

We are disbursing the USD portion of the campaign to Shila Ben ji's account. Your donations have ensured a respectful marriage to 35 couples. This event has created huge positivity on the ground and also resulted in the English media taking note.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/no-wedding-money-honey-so-lets-live-in/articleshow/69181061.cms

We have talked to Neha Patel ji and they are overwhelmed with the support from the families. Her team that organized this wonderful event plans to be back with a larger event where more than 100 couples will tie the knot.

Stay tuned and follow @DharmaKosh for updates.

Team Dharma Kosh

Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the love and support.

We are disbursing the USD portion of the campaign to Shila Ben ji's account. Your donations have ensured a respectful marriage to 35 couples. This event has created huge positivity on the ground and also resulted in the English media taking note.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/no-wedding-money-honey-so-lets-live-in/articleshow/69181061.cms

We have talked to Neha Patel ji and they are overwhelmed with the support from the families. Her team that organized this wonderful event plans to be back with a larger event where more than 100 couples will tie the knot.

Stay tuned and follow @DharmaKosh for updates.

Team Dharma Kosh

2nd May 2019
Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the love and support.

As communicated in our past update, the community marriage was solemnized on 19th April 2019. We are disbursing the rest of the INR portion of the donations to Shilaben ji's account. The remaining USD portion of the donations will be disbursed shortly.

Thank you!
Team Dharma Kosh
Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the love and support.

As communicated in our past update, the community marriage was solemnized on 19th April 2019. We are disbursing the rest of the INR portion of the donations to Shilaben ji's account. The remaining USD portion of the donations will be disbursed shortly.

Thank you!
Team Dharma Kosh
22nd April 2019
Dear Supporters,

We are thrilled to share news that the community marriage was solemnized on 19th April 2019. Please see the photos attached alongwith this update. Your contributions have made it possible for these families to start  their married lives with sanctitiy, dignity and the security of legal recognition.

We are closing this campaign and will shortly disburse the money to Shilaben ji's account.

Thank you!







Dear Supporters,

We are thrilled to share news that the community marriage was solemnized on 19th April 2019. Please see the photos attached alongwith this update. Your contributions have made it possible for these families to start  their married lives with sanctitiy, dignity and the security of legal recognition.

We are closing this campaign and will shortly disburse the money to Shilaben ji's account.

Thank you!







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Rs.63,142 raised

Goal: Rs.63,142

Beneficiary: Neha Patel info_outline

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