He Is All She Has Got, This 20-Year-Old Struggles To Save Her Uncle | Milaap

He Is All She Has Got, This 20-Year-Old Struggles To Save Her Uncle

“They say God can’t be there for everyone at all times, that’s why he sends parents. In my case, it was my uncle. He has always been my pillar of strength. My father never wanted a girl child, he abandoned my mother just after I was born. My mother didn’t want me because I reminded her of her husband. It was my uncle who brought me up with love and care. Now it’s my turn to do something for him...” - 20-year-old Janhavi controls her tears as she tells this.  


Dilip, her uncle, is battling a severe medical condition. He needs urgent medical treatment but the cost is too steep for them to afford it.

One by one his organs are giving up on him 

The last two years haven’t been anything less than a nightmare for the Kohli family. One after the other, Dilip has been going through medical emergencies.

Dilip with his wife, Sonia
 
“A small cut in his left toe turned into gangrene (Dead tissue caused by an infection or lack of blood flow). They had to chop off two fingers! But no, that wasn’t the end of it. His heart started getting worse all of a sudden and then his kidneys failed. It is as if someone had cursed our family,”- Sonia, wife.  


Now his lungs are also not working properly. He needs to be constantly on oxygen machine. He is at home, under strict supervision but his condition is very delicate. The family is always living in the fear that he might be required to be rushed to the hospital. 

He is angry, frustrated and hates being tied to his wheelchair

Dilip hasn’t been able to go to work since his fingers got amputated. He has been shuttling between home and hospital for the last two years. He has been dependent on his wife and children for everything.

 An old pic of Janhavi and Dilip

“And he hates that! He has always been a very independent person. Helping others, running errands and now he can’t even go to the bathroom on his own. He behaves like a kid, he craves for spicy food despite knowing that we can’t give him that. He gets angry, sometimes even breaks down - I feel bad, but I have to be strict with him. He is all we have got,” - Janhavi.   


Janhavi and his cousin, Manas have started working at just 20 to support Sonia who works at a call centre. They want to do everything in their hands to save Dilip. 
They have sold their house and have spent over 40 lakhs. But even then they are falling short of the daily expenses. The only they can save Dilip is with your help - a small contribution will go a long way



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27th January 2020
Hello Everyone!

He has been recovering a little. But the expenses have been increasing day by day for taking his care in regards to his oxygen machine and Bi-pap machines on a daily basis.

Milap has been very supportive of our campaign and we are really grateful for everyone's contribution and support which helped us for paying his bills till now.

Thank you for everyone's prayer and I would be happy to help others as well.
Hello Everyone!

He has been recovering a little. But the expenses have been increasing day by day for taking his care in regards to his oxygen machine and Bi-pap machines on a daily basis.

Milap has been very supportive of our campaign and we are really grateful for everyone's contribution and support which helped us for paying his bills till now.

Thank you for everyone's prayer and I would be happy to help others as well.
21st November 2019
Dear Supporters ,

Thank you for all the love and support.

We would like to inform that Mr.Dilip is currently on bipap support for breathing at home. He is also on wheelchair support and always needs an individual's assist even to carry out daily activities.He couldn't go for a bypass surgery as his heart and lungs are not functioning in proper condition. His health is deteriorating and next line of treatment is scheduled as soon as he shows some signs of improvement .
We wish him speedy recovery and continue supporting him.

Regards,
Sonia (wife)
Dear Supporters ,

Thank you for all the love and support.

We would like to inform that Mr.Dilip is currently on bipap support for breathing at home. He is also on wheelchair support and always needs an individual's assist even to carry out daily activities.He couldn't go for a bypass surgery as his heart and lungs are not functioning in proper condition. His health is deteriorating and next line of treatment is scheduled as soon as he shows some signs of improvement .
We wish him speedy recovery and continue supporting him.

Regards,
Sonia (wife)
29th October 2019
Dear Supporters,

I am highly obliged to each one who has helped me with my uncle's treatment. when things are stable for me, I promise to keep the humanity chain on.

Thank you all.
Dear Supporters,

I am highly obliged to each one who has helped me with my uncle's treatment. when things are stable for me, I promise to keep the humanity chain on.

Thank you all.
Rs.919,969 raised

Goal: Rs.2,000,000

1 Day to go

Beneficiary: Dilip info_outline

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Rahul donated Rs.2,500

I hope for uncle's quick recovery

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Anonymous donated Rs.1,000
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DALVI SUMEET SANTOSH donated Rs.15
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Poonam donated Rs.500

Please get well soon. Radhe Radhe

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RADHAKRISHNAN P M16 donated Rs.300