After losing two babies already Malliga fights to save her third baby

"Why was I allowed to get pregnant but not allowed to keep my babies? I even sold my mangal sutra to keep them alive and still it is not enough."

Can you imagine the pain of losing one child after another, and even before you get to hold them for the first time? I longed to have a child for 28 years of my married life. It finally happened but I never imagined I would lose them. Now I'm desperate to save my only surviving child among the triplets who is fighting for his life.

Like any other couple, my husband and I wished to raise a child and give them all that we could do. I had no idea the path we were headed down would bring such loss, sorrow, anger and fear. We were thrilled when I got pregnant. I followed all the advice given by doctor religiously. We were planning out an entire future for our children until the most unexpected thing happened.

I suddenly felt pain, contractions even before the due date and doctor said a C- section has to be done immediately.

When the maternity ward was surrounded by the cry of newborns my first child's cries were silenced by death. My second baby was fighting for his life while I was still lying in bed, suffering from the physical pain and grief of losing one of them already. Their brother was still in my womb, not ready for the world yet. I was not allowed to see my child, I kept asking for the second baby. My husband was silent.

"The silence was deafening, the terrible, empty silence, every mother's nightmare. He then broke into tears as he said we lost him. My husband and doctors consoled that third baby would be healthy but all I felt was more anxiety and grief."


My second baby passed away after fighting for 2 weeks. I wanted a reassurance every now and then about my third baby.

Thankfully, he was born alive but with an extremely low weight of only 850 grams. He was soon taken to NICU and doctors said he needs extensive treatment until he gains weight. The doctors are hopeful about his recovery. I cannot even hold him or feed him. I never got to hold any of them.


"I will not survive if my son dies. I cannot go back home and look at those empty walls knowing that God has taken my triplets away."

My husband, Gunasekaran is running to every person he knows in this world begging for a job because he does not have money for our next meal. He is a coolie worker and has spent everything he has on saving our children. We even sold my thali (mangal sutra). We would work all day and do whatever it takes to care for our child, but now, we are struggling to keep him alive.

How you can help

My baby boy needs intensive treatment to survive, it will take another 6-8 weeks for him to recover. The treatment would require Rs 8  lakhs which is unimaginable. Only your contributions can save him this time!

"Please help me to save my baby, I will ever be grateful to you and your family. We don't want anything else in life but our baby boy to survive. Please help us."
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8th February 2018
Dear Supporters,

Thank you for the wonderful support that you have shown towards my baby. He is doing better now compared to earlier. His health has also stabilized and he is able to take small quantities of oral feed as well.

The doctors suggest that once his weight starts to increase and his health stabilizes further. He can be discharged and we can take him home. I would request you to please help us by sharing this link further with your friends and family to help us in raising funds for his treatment.

Regards,
Gunasekaran

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I am so sorry for what you are going though. Praying for your baby and your family. Stay strong!

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