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Save Baby Yusuf fighting to live in the ICU

 When people say a woman glows when she is pregnant, they are absolutely right – Thamseen exuded happiness when she conceived our baby - Yusuf. Her joy reflected in everything she did. In our three years of marriage, we had never been more content with life. We were going to be parents and we couldn’t wait. Maybe that’s why Yusuf was born much before he was supposed to.



Thamseen had just completed 6 months of pregnancy that day. Everything was going well -- we had gone for a close relative’s wedding and returned. She was preparing to cook something that night when her water broke suddenly. She screamed and I ran to the kitchen. I couldn’t believe that this was happening and rushed her to the hospital. 

The doctor, even without checking properly, told us that she may have to do an abortion. Thamseen and I looked at each other – blank and speechless. How easily she said the word ‘abortion’ to parents who were eagerly waiting to see their baby’s beautiful face. We said no, we were not going to give up on our baby. How could we? But the doctor had already applied some gel to her cervix, that would prove disastrous later.



My wife was advised complete bed rest. She could still feel the baby move so we were not very worried. I felt relieved when I put my palm on her stomach to check on our child. He was safe in there, I assumed – but that changed soon when Thamseen observed blood in her urine one day. We went to the doctors immediately, and they said that my unborn baby was at the risk of contracting a deadly infection. He had to be brought into the world soon. An emergency C-section was performed and baby Yusuf arrived on February 19, at 6 and-a-half months of being in the womb.



He was not equipped to survive from the beginning - he was battling infections, could not breathe on his own and his platelet count was very low. I did not see how his small face looked, as it was covered with many tubes.  For the first 32 days, we were not allowed to touch our baby as he was in the NICU on ventilator support. He underwent blood transfusion four times! 

My baby has only dealt with sickness since he arrived in this world. What did he do to deserve this? My wife was not herself in the days she could not see our son. Today that has changed because he is now in the step-down NICU now. She can hold him, but cannot nurse him - he is fed through tubes. Doctors say his breathing needs to stabilise for him to start feeding by himself. When I see his small, pink body, I pray. I pray that tomorrow will be better than today. That he will start breathing properly one day and that we will all live happily.



I work under a contractor in the construction business, but I am not able to go to work regularly. My contractor is a kind man and has not fired me yet. For me, my child is number one priority. I will do anything for him, but I have already spent close to Rs 4 lakh on Yusuf’s treatment. I need close to Rs 2 lakh more as the baby needs to spend at least 25 days more in the hospital. 

His lungs need to develop and he needs to gain weight or he will not survive. Recently, the doctors tried to see whether he could breathe on his own, but he cried and cried and turned blue. My heart almost stopped. My son is still fighting and needs more time to be alright. I have nobody to help me — I have sold off my wife’s jewellery and every expensive thing we had. Help me.
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1st May 2018
Dear Supporters,

The Baby got discharged on the 23rd, April morning. He is doing good and weighed 1.8kg as on 25th. Eye treatment is still going on with regular follow-ups.  His Zone 3 of eyes is frozen completely.

He is active, he cries for breastfeeding, he makes us wake up in the night, he expects us to talk to him while he is awake. Smiles at his mother when she gives KMC (KANGAROO MOTHER CARE)  and doesn't allow us to put him down.

His elder brother UMAR also takes care of him well and always make sure whatever he eats, he will get the food near his younger brother and keeps it there saying, mom, this is for YUSUF.

I THANK EVERYONE FOR BEING WITH US WHEN WE WERE IN NEED. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL WITH "HEALTH/WEALTH/PIOUS KIDS"

SAHIL
Dear Supporters,

The Baby got discharged on the 23rd, April morning. He is doing good and weighed 1.8kg as on 25th. Eye treatment is still going on with regular follow-ups.  His Zone 3 of eyes is frozen completely.

He is active, he cries for breastfeeding, he makes us wake up in the night, he expects us to talk to him while he is awake. Smiles at his mother when she gives KMC (KANGAROO MOTHER CARE)  and doesn't allow us to put him down.

His elder brother UMAR also takes care of him well and always make sure whatever he eats, he will get the food near his younger brother and keeps it there saying, mom, this is for YUSUF.

I THANK EVERYONE FOR BEING WITH US WHEN WE WERE IN NEED. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL WITH "HEALTH/WEALTH/PIOUS KIDS"

SAHIL
18th April 2018
Hi All,

Sorry for not sending any update from past few weeks.

Yusuf is very active now and weighs 1.66kg. Recently he was diagnosed with ROP(Retinopathy of Prematurity)  and laser treatment for eyes been done. He is recovering from it. This Saturday we will get to know the result of it.

Also, I would like to share a happy news with all of you.  

"This weekend my kid will be discharged from hospital"

I sincerely thank you all for supporting me when I was in need. Please continue such noble work and I wish that let GOD give all of you more wealth to keep helping people in need like me.

I pray ALLAH to grant all of you a good health,  pious children, and keep all of you happy forever.

Best Regards,
Sahil(F/O Baby Yusuf)
Hi All,

Sorry for not sending any update from past few weeks.

Yusuf is very active now and weighs 1.66kg. Recently he was diagnosed with ROP(Retinopathy of Prematurity)  and laser treatment for eyes been done. He is recovering from it. This Saturday we will get to know the result of it.

Also, I would like to share a happy news with all of you.  

"This weekend my kid will be discharged from hospital"

I sincerely thank you all for supporting me when I was in need. Please continue such noble work and I wish that let GOD give all of you more wealth to keep helping people in need like me.

I pray ALLAH to grant all of you a good health,  pious children, and keep all of you happy forever.

Best Regards,
Sahil(F/O Baby Yusuf)
4th April 2018
Dear Supporters,

Thank you so much for your valuable support. We couldn't have come this far if we didn't have you by our side.

Our baby has now been able to gain more weight. He now weighs 1.22 kgs and we are now waiting for his weight to increase to 1.35 kgs so we can remove the external oxygen support and let our little baby boy breathe on his own.

He was down with fever and cough last week but he has now almost recovered.

Thank you for being there. Please keep supporting and praying for us.

Regards,
Sahil
Dear Supporters,

Thank you so much for your valuable support. We couldn't have come this far if we didn't have you by our side.

Our baby has now been able to gain more weight. He now weighs 1.22 kgs and we are now waiting for his weight to increase to 1.35 kgs so we can remove the external oxygen support and let our little baby boy breathe on his own.

He was down with fever and cough last week but he has now almost recovered.

Thank you for being there. Please keep supporting and praying for us.

Regards,
Sahil
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