Superhero grandma needs your help to be able to see again


Why am I fundraising?

I first met Shila Ghosh in July 2015 for this interview: http://her.yourstory.com/shila-ghosh-0821

If you are regular on Facebook you might have come across Shila Ghosh's story. Her son, and the family's sole earning member, passed away in 2006 after a 13 year long battle with a terminal lung disease. During this period she had taken on several loans to help pay for his treatment. When he died not only did her family have no means of survival, they also had huge debts to clear.

Shila had been married at 14 and not allowed to leave the home thereafter. She has studied only upto class three. But when she saw no other recourse after her son's death, she stepped out of the house determined to earn a living for the first time in her life. She was well into her 80's and had never left her house on her own before.

Refusing to accept charity, Shila became a roadside entrepreneur. She travels 76 kms everyday from her home in Bally to sell crispies on the footpath outside Haldiram's in Exide. She is 87 today and can barely walk. Severe cataract hinders her vision. But she cannot stop working because her family's survival is at stake.

Her cataract was a problem even when I had interviewed her back in July. But the brave granny, who battles insurmountable challenges every day of her life, is too chicken to go under the knife. She would rather bear the pain and loss of vision than opt for medical care. Also there's the fact that she can't afford it. 

Her family is alarmed for her and got in touch with me recently to convince her about the urgency of the matter. After much bribing and assurances, she has consented to the surgery. But the cost and loss of income scares her. She has cleared most of the debts that she had taken on for her son's treatment over the past decade. Now she, understandably, doesn't want to go into debt again.

Why should you help  Shila? If you have ever come across her story on social media before and marvelled at the resilience of the human spirit, then you know that she displays that resilience and strength in full form. Her actions inspire us and make us push ourselves. She makes us believe in the best of ourselves, in what we are capable of. This is not charity but a worthy tribute to a veritable superhero who walks among us. 

And she is really really cute.

What do I plan to do with the funds?

If she waits any longer, Shila risks her cataract bursting and losing her vision for life. Half of the funds raised will be for her surgery and post operative care. The other half will be for her and her family to get by on while she recuperates from her surgery, since she won't be able to earn during this time.

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Shila's surgery will be done by Dr. Abhijeet Sen of the famed Drishti Pradip clinic in Jodhpur Park. She is currently undergoing preliminary treatment from Dr. Keya Sen regarding the same.

Shila with Dr. Keya Sen
I will be posting regular updates on her medical care, pictures before and after operation, a breakdown of the costs and any other details that are posed to me.

Shila loves meeting her fans. If any of you are in Kolkata and want to pop by while she is admitted to the nursing home, I'd be happy to coordinate a visit.


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20th March 2017
Dear well-wishers of Shila,

This post has been a long time coming. A lot of that time was spent convincing Shila about the necessity and harmlessness of a cataract surgery. At first I was confused, and somewhat angry, that why after approaching me for help in financing her cataract did she back out of it. But speaking with her over the past year has helped me see things from her perspective.

She was in pain and in no way financially equipped for the medical expenses that lay before her. But she was also terribly afraid of going under the knife at this advanced age. She told of a neighbour of hers who never made it out of surgery. Though I don't know how old this neighbour was or what she was getting surgery for, this was enough of a cautionary tale for fear to have won over the pain.

That is not to say our fundraising was in vain. Shila trudges to work everyday, but someday soon she will not be able to. Her cataract might burst. Any number of medical emergencies that are typical at this age might take hold. Her food and medicine costs will be an obstacle for the family when she is no longer earning. She still has a few debts left to pay from when she had borrowed to treat her son.

I've delayed handing over money to her family because, after my interactions with them, I wasn't sure it would be used for Shila. After some deliberation I've decided to hand over a large chunk to her grandson with the caveat that the amount be used for her whatever she needs- clothes, food, medicines, debt clearance, etc. But he should maintain a rough accounting of the funds.

I'll pay the money to Shila's family in two or three installments-depending on Shila's needs and our verification of said accounting. The exception to this is a medical emergency or hospitalization in which case her grandson will be given as much cash as the situation demands.The total amount that I received from the fundraiser, after deduction of Milaap's fees, were 1,52,524. I also received Rs. 10,000 in offline donations. For the first installment I have deposited 62,500 INR in Shila's account. Please see the attached snapshots. I will continue to be involved with her family for updates on her work and health and will report that here.

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Raksha donated Rs.100

I wish you speedy recovery

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She is an example for beggars of this country... #Respect