Help to raise funds for my father's bypass surgery

From the last update, a lot has happened. Just a few days before his surgery he suddenly got a second heart attack last week and was rushed to the ICU again. He was in a critical situation for next 3 days but thankfully he got a bit better. He is still under observation[CCU] as he is quite weak consequentially from the consecutive attacks. Additionally, his sodium and potassium levels are low which you can see in the report. Doctors are trying to stabilise his vitals in hope that he will have surgery next week and wishing things to be in place following that. 

Amidst all this mental, emotional and up to some extent a physical turmoil, I wasn’t able to provide any updates, which I believe each and every single contributor deserves to know. I apologise for my circumstantial unavailability. 

With all these overwhelming days something worse happens, someone anonymously reached out to Milaap and reported on the grounds of his/her belief that we are collecting more funds than actually needed for a By-Pass surgery,  suspecting the intention of me and my family over the amount raised. It was deeply hurting but I can only assure you that we are going to use the money for my father’s recovery only. 

Someone pointed that it costs less than what we have raised. I  admit that I myself, am not sure how much the whole process will cost us, and we can only know after my father gets discharged. Once my father gets discharged,  I will personally attach bills and all the other relevant documents. Bypass surgery is a costly process in itself but even the post surgery process requires a lot of money, there will be regular medical checkups, physiotherapies and much more things so in the case of any money left, it will go into all this. Still, if any funds left, we will give it back to someone who needs it. I can assure you me or my family will not use even a penny out of it for personal usage beyond my father’s treatment. I am even being asked to arrange a call with the doctors to verify the situation, which is not at all possible. The surgeons don’t have more than 2-3 min per person during their visits and the talks are very short and precise. Surgeons run on a tight schedule and it is not possible for me or probably any normal person to arrange a verification call catering to an individual patient’s need. I request you to understand that in this situation asking something like this is somewhat unjust.

I really appreciate all those who have and are supporting me in my hard time and me and my family are grateful for it, but please if you do not believe in our cause or the even have a speck of doubt on our intentions, please reach out to me with something that proves your identity and amount donated, I’ll try to refund you as soon as possible. Although, I have tried to be as verbose as possible It isn’t possible for me to explain my situation in a better way than this at the moment. If you ask any of my close friends, they can also tell you whatever happened over the time.

If you have any other doubts/queries, please reach out to me, I cannot commit to a prompt response, but I’ll reply to everyone in due course of time either personally or in another update if the doubt seems generic 

Milaap contacted me with the case  and it is tough to step into their shoes for a moment and contemplate that they want to eliminate the slightest possibility of a while. Having said that, I am glad they acknowledged that I am totally engaged in taking care of my father and my family from the past 18 days added to the peripheral tasks that accompany when a closed one is admitted to hospital. Milaap as a platform has been an enormous help to me and I understand that they don’t want to entertain any possibility leading to hampering the sanctity of this platform. 

Having said that, I again urge you all to consider the option to reach out to me once before you report to Milaap so that this conflict could be dissolved at all ends.

Thank you once again for all the help so far.