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Help My Mother To Stand Again

Hi all,

My name is Walid Ansari and my mother, Rizwana Shireen, has been suffering from arthritis for more than 6 years. We are from a small town named Jamshedpur and we belong to the middle class and dont have much savings. 

We have taken her to almost all the doctors that anyone has recommended but none could give relief to her pain. Initially she didn't have a lot of pain but as time passed the pain kept on increasing and increasing and in the past 6 years she has many times not been able to move from the bed on her own. Now the pain has increased to an extent that she cannot bear it, sometimes she just sits and cries. If you think the worst pain that a person can feel is during a break up or something then I hope you never see your mother cry while you are able to do nothing about it. 

After consulting a lot of doctors and a lot people We have decided to take her to Vellore, CMC Hospital, that's cheap and has a good rheumatologist that can treat her. The expenses are gonna be a bit too much for us as we only have a dry clean shop that we opened by taking a loan which we are still paying at EMI 9000 a month. The treatment expenses estimate that we have got from a few doctors is more than 2 lakhs, as the treatment will include a lot to tests and it will be a slow process so we will have to be at Vellore for quite sometime. 
I believe we can pay half the treatment expenses somehow by borrowing money and selling some unnecessary stuffs from our home but it would be really helpful if we could generate some money through this fund raiser which can be used for the treatment, traveling and staying in Vellore. I'm thankful to a specific community that really helped me gave me a lot of hope and strength for coming here. That's all I wanna say and even if you cannot contribute to this fundraiser I ask you to just pray for the better health for my mother and for that I thank you.
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8th July 2019
Dear Supporters,

Here's a quick update:

My mother and father went to Chennai for treatment as everyone said that Sri Ramachandra Medical Center was our best option. So we booked a train and went there. We rented out a place to stay there for a month. My mother, father and a cousin of mine then went to visit the hospital and we met the doctor who examined my mother's condition and wrote a ton of tests for my mother to take which would have cost about 25000. We found it too expensive and then decided to go to CMC HOSPITAL VELLORE ( best decision we made ) so my mother father and sister booked a bus to Vellore and to CMC and they went there but when they arrived they found that first appointment should have been taken online or offline otherwise the doctor won't see us so they made aN appointment for a later and earliest date as possible and they returned to Chennai. The appointment date which we got was quite away and my mother was in a lot of pain and we could not wait that long so my mother and father went to Hyderabad to one of our relatives who suggested us to visit her doctor and so they did, he checked my mother and gave her a few steroid medicines to suppress her pain for time being. After being there for a week my mother and father returned to Chennai  then on the appointment date they went back again to Vellore and met the doctor who also wrote a lot of tests but quite inexpensive ones and so my mother went through them and we were given another appointment date as the results of the test would take some time to come, hence, my mother, father, and cousin returned. In between all this, I the son was at my town looking after the business, as we have a dry clean and my father washes all the clothes all the work was pending so my father had to return back to my home town for work leaving my mother with a cousin of ours. On the next appointment date, my mother and cousin went back to Vellore and the doctor saw her and gave a lot of medicines for three months and gave her another appointment date which was for three months.

Now it's been more than three months and the appointment date which we got, we could not go to it as we were financially a little weak to book tickets. hence we spoke to the doctor and she gave us another appointment for August and we sure will go on that date back to Vellore for further treatment.

Thank You



Dear Supporters,

Here's a quick update:

My mother and father went to Chennai for treatment as everyone said that Sri Ramachandra Medical Center was our best option. So we booked a train and went there. We rented out a place to stay there for a month. My mother, father and a cousin of mine then went to visit the hospital and we met the doctor who examined my mother's condition and wrote a ton of tests for my mother to take which would have cost about 25000. We found it too expensive and then decided to go to CMC HOSPITAL VELLORE ( best decision we made ) so my mother father and sister booked a bus to Vellore and to CMC and they went there but when they arrived they found that first appointment should have been taken online or offline otherwise the doctor won't see us so they made aN appointment for a later and earliest date as possible and they returned to Chennai. The appointment date which we got was quite away and my mother was in a lot of pain and we could not wait that long so my mother and father went to Hyderabad to one of our relatives who suggested us to visit her doctor and so they did, he checked my mother and gave her a few steroid medicines to suppress her pain for time being. After being there for a week my mother and father returned to Chennai  then on the appointment date they went back again to Vellore and met the doctor who also wrote a lot of tests but quite inexpensive ones and so my mother went through them and we were given another appointment date as the results of the test would take some time to come, hence, my mother, father, and cousin returned. In between all this, I the son was at my town looking after the business, as we have a dry clean and my father washes all the clothes all the work was pending so my father had to return back to my home town for work leaving my mother with a cousin of ours. On the next appointment date, my mother and cousin went back to Vellore and the doctor saw her and gave a lot of medicines for three months and gave her another appointment date which was for three months.

Now it's been more than three months and the appointment date which we got, we could not go to it as we were financially a little weak to book tickets. hence we spoke to the doctor and she gave us another appointment for August and we sure will go on that date back to Vellore for further treatment.

Thank You



1st March 2019
Thank you for your immense support and love.

After seeing such an amazing response from the community we are increasing the goal since the treatment costs are increasing.

Thank you all for your contribution and support. I'm really in tears by the support and wishes I have got from everyone. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for your immense support and love.

After seeing such an amazing response from the community we are increasing the goal since the treatment costs are increasing.

Thank you all for your contribution and support. I'm really in tears by the support and wishes I have got from everyone. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
26th February 2019
Dear Supporters,

Thank you for your immense support and love.

After seeing such an amazing response from the community we are increasing the goal from 25000 to 60000 since the treatment costs are increasing.

Thank you all for your contribution and support. I'm really in tears by the support and wishes I have got from everyone. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
Dear Supporters,

Thank you for your immense support and love.

After seeing such an amazing response from the community we are increasing the goal from 25000 to 60000 since the treatment costs are increasing.

Thank you all for your contribution and support. I'm really in tears by the support and wishes I have got from everyone. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
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Rs.66,150 raised

Goal: Rs.150,000

Beneficiary: Rizwana Shireen info_outline

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Anonymous donated $100

Stay strong and keep the faith. Hope your mother gets well soon.

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Anonymous donated Rs.2,500

Hope your mother gets well soon

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ROOMMAN ISRAILI donated Rs.100
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