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This Single Mother Has Been Struggling Alone With A Failing Heart

For 28 years now, I’ve taken care of everything on my own. I lost my husband in a terrible road accident when my son was only 6-years-old. Ever since then, it has been just the two of us. Life hasn’t been easy, but I’ve tried to make the best of it with whatever little I had. Six years ago, I was diagnosed with a serious heart condition and risked complete heart failure. I had a surgery and they inserted a device into my body that makes my heart work properly. Now I had surgery again because the device got infected, but I need to stay in the hospital for longer to get better. I haven’t been able to go to work, and I don’t have any savings left. I don’t know how I will get treatment anymore.


Heart failure didn’t stop Selvi, but now she needs further treatment to survive


Selvi (52) was diagnosed with heart failure 6 years ago. She had surgery to insert an implantable cardiac resynchronization therapy defibrillator that detects irregularities in the heart and corrects them with electrical impulses. The device lowers the risk of life-threatening effects of heart failure.

A few weeks ago, the doctors told me that the machine was infected and I needed another surgery, otherwise, I wouldn’t make it. I was scared but I knew I had to somehow get the surgery. This machine is the only thing keeping me alive. Despite heart failure, I continued to work even after my first surgery 6 years ago, but I haven’t been able to work for five months now because of my heart condition. Now that my second surgery was done on 6 February, I need more treatment before I get back on my feet again.


Life has been full of uphill battles for Selvi

I had never expected life to turn out this way. When my husband died, I was lost. It took me a while to get back on my feet, but I did it nevertheless. I had to stay strong for my son. He was only 6 years then. I started doing whatever little work I got so that we could at least get food for the day. We barely had anything, but life was going on and we were grateful to be alive and healthy.

 In 2004, we went through a difficult time again. My son was depressed and tried to commit suicide. I never saw it coming. In the mishap, he completely burnt his hands. Now he can’t even lift his left hand, so work is difficult for him to come by. I have single-handedly brought him up and I knew I had to do everything to make sure my son was alright. I started working as part of housekeeping in Jain Hospital after that. I didn’t have anyone supporting me then and don’t have anyone but my son now.


Selvi has no one to support her

Selvi hasn’t been able to go to work in 5 months now. She is the sole bread-winner of the family, and despite her heart condition, continued to work hard to make a living. Now, Selvi has nothing left and no one to support her.  

I have six sisters, but no one has come to see me in the hospital in the 15 days that I’ve been here. They don’t even pick up my calls anymore, let alone call to find out if I’m okay. I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve this. I thought the family was supposed to stick together through difficult times. I need help getting up, sitting down and even walking sometimes, my son has to help with everything, but because of his hand, he finds it difficult. I’ve somehow managed to pay for my medicals bills till now, without anyone’s help, but I can’t go on any longer like this. I have nothing left. 


How You Can Help

Selvi needs almost 3 lakhs to stay in the hospital for further medical attention after her heart surgery. She is getting better, but without further treatment, Selvi might not make it. She has worked hard all her life to provide for her son and herself without anyone’s help, but now she needs someone to lend her a helping hand to help save her life.

Your support will ensure that Selvi gets the treatment she needs.
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26th November 2019
Dear donors,
 
Selvi has completed her treatment and she is doing good. Funds raised on this campaign were used to settle for all medical expenses incurred by the family at Mahaveer Jain Hospital.
 
After settlement of bills for Selvi's treatment, we have a balance of  Rs 16348.52 in equivalent INR.
 
With the consent of family, the money available will be used towards the treatment of other patients with urgent needs.
 
Sowrava, aged 16 is suffering from Kyphoscoliosis requires surgery at the earliest. They've only raised Rs.16,348 out of the required amount of Rs 550000. A sum of Rs 16,348 will be transferred towards the same from this campaign for the treatment. Here's the link to their campaign : https://milaap.org/fundraisers/help-master-sowrava
 
All donors of this campaign will receive periodic updates on the status of Sowrava's health and treatment via emails and messages.
 
Thanks for your continued support and engagement.
 
Regards,
Team Milaap
Dear donors,
 
Selvi has completed her treatment and she is doing good. Funds raised on this campaign were used to settle for all medical expenses incurred by the family at Mahaveer Jain Hospital.
 
After settlement of bills for Selvi's treatment, we have a balance of  Rs 16348.52 in equivalent INR.
 
With the consent of family, the money available will be used towards the treatment of other patients with urgent needs.
 
Sowrava, aged 16 is suffering from Kyphoscoliosis requires surgery at the earliest. They've only raised Rs.16,348 out of the required amount of Rs 550000. A sum of Rs 16,348 will be transferred towards the same from this campaign for the treatment. Here's the link to their campaign : https://milaap.org/fundraisers/help-master-sowrava
 
All donors of this campaign will receive periodic updates on the status of Sowrava's health and treatment via emails and messages.
 
Thanks for your continued support and engagement.
 
Regards,
Team Milaap
12th August 2019
Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the support.

Ms. Selvi has undergone her surgery and was discharged from the hospital. She is on her regular follow ups with the hospital. Thank you all!

Regards,
Have A Heart Foundation

Dear Supporters,

Thank you all for the support.

Ms. Selvi has undergone her surgery and was discharged from the hospital. She is on her regular follow ups with the hospital. Thank you all!

Regards,
Have A Heart Foundation

Rs.42,412 raised

Goal: Rs.295,200

Beneficiary: Selvi info_outline
80G tax benefits for INR donations

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