On september 4th while he was in the shower he felt like his left arm was getting curled up and needed help to get it straight, hence called my mum who was cooking downstairs. My mum acted quickly in this situation and called us for help and my brother-in-law has called for an ambulance. He was taken to Black town Hospital, where he was diagnosed with stroke and was immediately transferred to West mead Intensive care for further management. He had an intracranial bleed requiring drainage; doctors quite proactively did the surgery in no time. Mum has been inconsolable, confused and dubious. She is worried about , my sister's unborn baby, and her 2 year old son who is constantly trying to understand why grandpa is lying on the bed with tubes in his mouth, why he is not playing with him, why he is not taking him to park.
Dad suffered a major hemorrhagic stroke on R side, which might affect his Left side or the extent of paralysis is not known until dad opens his eyes and attempts to obey commands. He spent 21 days in ICU .Doctors said that it’s a long road towards recovery and warned me that stroke might affect speech, sight and movement as it was a big bleed. My parents being the visitors to other country. we have taken a health cover which covers them for 70,000$. It costed 6000$ per night in ICU. I do not know what to worry about anymore-financial situation, father’s condition or mother's unasked questions.My sister and Brother-in-law spent their whole savings for my father's treatment Which already drained their savings.
I know that whatever does not kill you makes you strong; hence, I have prepared to fight back with situation and chose to be strong. Rather than shedding tears and feel helpless, I have decided to ask for help, this is a situation, which is bigger than our wages and we cannot thank enough those friends, who have exhausted their pockets as well in attempt to help us. we still need help to tackle the big bills, provide hospital care and rehabilitation for my dad. Doctors are not happy to send him to India yet as he is not stable enough to travel. Hence, I am asking all of you to generously donate to my milaap page, your donations will enable me to provide the care my dad, my hero needs.