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Original Article in Bengali daily, Anandabazar Patrika: https://www.anandabazar.com/state/west-bengal-news-little-girl-who-lost-one-hand-in-bomb-blast-asks-father-to-bring-her-a-new-hand-1.805313?ref=hm-editorschoice

Translated article mentioning the incident:
“When are you going to get my new hand” a question from a daughter to a helpless father…..
 
She has lost her left hand, is so simple to say but this seven years kid is still yet to come to terms. Rather she is praying daily to the God to get back her hand……
Many a time she is trying to hold the colour pencil packet, books with her left hand, then often getting dis-balanced while getting up on the bed, her eyes getting wet when she is not able put saree for her doll with one hand. With the right hand on her forehead she continues praying to the All Mighty, “oh god, please return my hand.”
This tragic incident occurred on 20th April 2018. This year Panchayat (rural local bodies) election in the West Bengal claimed 13 lives along with violent political clashes. As the political violence spread across the state, Sambhu Halder’s family also did not escaped. On the morning of the fateful day, during her daily routine task of plucking flower, assuming it to be a toy, a bomb was picked up by his daughter Poulami.
On seeing her with the bomb in hand, her father and grandfather cried aloud “throw it immediately.” Poulami at once threw it, but within a second there was an explosion. A blinding light and a terrible sound.  Unconscious in a pool of blood lay little Poulami. Even after six weeks of the incident, Police is clueless on the source of the bombs. Political parties continue the allegation and counter allegation games.
It took three timely surgery at the R. G. Kar Medical College and Hospital in Kolkata to save Poulami’s life. However, she lost the portion below her left elbow forever. Now, she hides the left hand swathed in bandages from all. She murmurs “Will never go to pluck flowers”
Poulami lives at Goplapur village, near Haroa, North 24 Paraganas district in West Bengal. She studies in the 3rd standard and her elder sister is in the 8th standard. Her father Sambhu is sick with neuro problem for last one year and unable to run her vegetable shop. Her mother Deepali Halder runs the family by tailoring.
Smt. Deepali laments, “Poulami awakes up in the mid night out of pain, and cries what is the use of growing up with one hand !” Deepali not allowing her younger daughter to go out of sight for a moment now. Sitting on mother’s lap Poulami mentions “You know I draw very well, I love drawing trees, flowers, house, etc.” Soon she is overcome by her current tragedy and repents “Why did the notorious people take away my hand.”
Could not able to answer daughter’s question her father leaves to shed tears. Sambhu narrates when in hospital Poulami used to cry he would console her saying, “I would get a new hand for you.” However, Sambhu becomes helpless after knowing the cost of prosthetic or artificial hand’s costs.
Searching her father Poulami came to the room and said, “Baba…when will you buy the new hand for me” Unable to meet her daughter’s eye, Sambhu flee in hurry.
Appeal:
So, will Poulami be deprived of an artificial hand because her father is sick with a neuro problem? Does she have to adopt hiding her left hand because her mother is economically weak? Or she would continue lifelong being a victim of the political violence? Can we afford to paint a world of despair to a 7 years old child?
With such questions peeping in my fatherly mind, I called Anandabazar Patrika and by the grace of God – got Poulami’s mother Smt. Deepali Halder’s no. After speaking with her I learnt the followings:
Poulami’s new hand: They have gone to Endolite based on Govt. hospital’s Dr’s recommendation. This prosthetic company is also endorsed by couple of medical practitioner I spoke to in Chennai. The new hand will last for another 10 years. Every 3 years the fingers will be replaced. Movable fingers would be 3 out of the 5. At the age of 18 as she becomes adult and growth stabilizes, she will need another prosthetic hand.
Have a look on the attached documents too.
The Cost: Overall expenses including the finger replacement in the next 10 years would be a total of Rs. 2 lakhs 85 thousand. The family have ordered the hand and in need of the amount within the next 30 days.
The Need: The family has manged to gather and collect Rs. 1 lakh 25 thousand. There have been many promises from rich and resourceful men of the society but yet to materialize. They still need Rs. 1 lakh 60 thousand to gift this kid her hand back.
I have done my bit. However, it is not enough and hence I request you to please consider gifting this kid her hand back by your benevolent help. You may transfer the amount to her parent’s account as mentioned below.

If you know Bengali, you can directly speak with Poulami’s parent at 70290 20898. However, for any further queries and confirmation of credit of your donation – please feel free to reach out to me.
Let’s show Poulami that this world is full of hope, love and smiles.
Regards,
Saunak
Govt. Hospital Treatment sheet
Govt. Hospital Treatment sheet
Govt. Hospital Case History
Govt. Hospital Case History
Advance payment for the hand in Endolite
Advance payment for the hand in Endolite
Initial Health Center report on the incident day
Initial Health Center report on the incident day
Endolite registration
Endolite registration
Govt. Hospital Surgery Discharge sheet
Govt. Hospital Surgery Discharge sheet
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29th May 2019


Dear Supporters,


Along with my wife, I was fortunate to visit Poulami and her family at her home on Tuesday, May 21st.  Her village Gopalpur is nearer to Basirhat than Haroa and barely 20 kms from the Indo-Bangladesh border.

Family: Grandfather no more. Father bed ridden with neuro problem, under medicine. Grand mother and mother hard working women - stitching work as profession. Elder sister - Pallavi in 9th standard. Poulami now in 4th standard. House: Owned by them. Pucca house (brick walled) - 1 room & toilet under Govt. scheme. Rest of the portion is kaacha (mud walled)Agricultural fields: None; Joint share on some Mango and other fruit trees. They have a milking cow.
Our Poulami: A bubbly child. Loves to swim, climb trees and a darling of the neighborhood. Smart and cute. Loves drawing the most. Likes eating various fruits than chocolate or sweets. Introduced me to her friends and her cow. The Prosthetic Hand: Working well without any issues. Thumb onward first 3 fingers movable. Poulami settled with it. Even rode bi-cycle. The Company (Endolite India Ltd.) follows up regularly and if needed will replace till she turns 18. (another 9 years). I too personally found the quality of the hand and movements to be great. Worth all our efforts.

The Future: 
  • Expected Expense: Current hand will need a replacement as she turns 18. Endolite has given an estimate of Rs. 16 lakhs including the new hand, life long warranty & guaranty and related medical cost. Her mother has opened a joint account in her name. They have been able to save close to Rs. 1 lakh as of now. 
  • Rehabilitation: Please let the family or me know of Govt. schemes - which helps child like Poulami and if possible name of the department to be contacted and process

    • Educational help - higher education
    • Medical cost
    • Livelihood assistance after she turns 18
Lastly, hats off to Poulami's strong willed mother & grand mother - apostle of Shakti. Battling all odds with a smile.Requesting your wishes and blessings for Poulami and her family.

Regards,
Saunak



Dear Supporters,


Along with my wife, I was fortunate to visit Poulami and her family at her home on Tuesday, May 21st.  Her village Gopalpur is nearer to Basirhat than Haroa and barely 20 kms from the Indo-Bangladesh border.

Family: Grandfather no more. Father bed ridden with neuro problem, under medicine. Grand mother and mother hard working women - stitching work as profession. Elder sister - Pallavi in 9th standard. Poulami now in 4th standard. House: Owned by them. Pucca house (brick walled) - 1 room & toilet under Govt. scheme. Rest of the portion is kaacha (mud walled)Agricultural fields: None; Joint share on some Mango and other fruit trees. They have a milking cow.
Our Poulami: A bubbly child. Loves to swim, climb trees and a darling of the neighborhood. Smart and cute. Loves drawing the most. Likes eating various fruits than chocolate or sweets. Introduced me to her friends and her cow. The Prosthetic Hand: Working well without any issues. Thumb onward first 3 fingers movable. Poulami settled with it. Even rode bi-cycle. The Company (Endolite India Ltd.) follows up regularly and if needed will replace till she turns 18. (another 9 years). I too personally found the quality of the hand and movements to be great. Worth all our efforts.

The Future: 
  • Expected Expense: Current hand will need a replacement as she turns 18. Endolite has given an estimate of Rs. 16 lakhs including the new hand, life long warranty & guaranty and related medical cost. Her mother has opened a joint account in her name. They have been able to save close to Rs. 1 lakh as of now. 
  • Rehabilitation: Please let the family or me know of Govt. schemes - which helps child like Poulami and if possible name of the department to be contacted and process

    • Educational help - higher education
    • Medical cost
    • Livelihood assistance after she turns 18
Lastly, hats off to Poulami's strong willed mother & grand mother - apostle of Shakti. Battling all odds with a smile.Requesting your wishes and blessings for Poulami and her family.

Regards,
Saunak

18th April 2019
Visiting our little Poulami in May

Namaste All,
Trust you are doing well.
Just to re-introduce myself I was the fund raiser for this campaign supported by YOU for Poulami Halder of Haroa in West Bengal, India.
Thanks to you, she is doing fine and pretty much back to her normal life - school, drawing, outdoor games, etc.
She is now used to her new hand. Though she is currently facing some itching and getting pimples in this scotching summer sometimes - in the areas where the new hand touches her skin.

I am planning to visit Poulami and her family at her home on Tuesday, May 21st. If you have any advise or guidance for her, please let me know. If needed, I can take printout of your customised message and handover to her. Any other instruction to me - feel free to pass it on. Post my visit - hopefully with some pics I will provide you an update.

Requesting your wishes and blessings.

Regards,
Saunak

Visiting our little Poulami in May

Namaste All,
Trust you are doing well.
Just to re-introduce myself I was the fund raiser for this campaign supported by YOU for Poulami Halder of Haroa in West Bengal, India.
Thanks to you, she is doing fine and pretty much back to her normal life - school, drawing, outdoor games, etc.
She is now used to her new hand. Though she is currently facing some itching and getting pimples in this scotching summer sometimes - in the areas where the new hand touches her skin.

I am planning to visit Poulami and her family at her home on Tuesday, May 21st. If you have any advise or guidance for her, please let me know. If needed, I can take printout of your customised message and handover to her. Any other instruction to me - feel free to pass it on. Post my visit - hopefully with some pics I will provide you an update.

Requesting your wishes and blessings.

Regards,
Saunak

13th August 2018
A week back, Poulami’s mother called me and informed that the surgery went well. A day before the surgery – end of July, her purse was stolen in Sealdah railway station. As her mobile was lost, she was not reachable. Her new mobile no. is 9051 864 477.

Poulami is doing well and joined back school. She is going out to play too. Her photos with the new hand below. Expense breakup follows:
28th May = Rs. 1,20,000 (advance payment for the imported hand)
25th July = Rs. 1,64,890
Total expenses = Rs. 2,84,890.

In the last moment it seems Endolite gave few% discount and then with the newspaper articles there were other kind donation. Poulami’s mother said the total amount will be around Rs. 1 lakh which will be kept in a FD for the next hand. This hand will last 10 years only. At the age of 18, she will be requiring another hand that will last life time. It will cost Rs. 16 lakhs.

As per Poulami's mother - the July 26th article of Anandabazar is fabricated and had lot of facts that are not true. The reality for the family remains harsh and there was no benefits extended - they were used more as a propaganda of a political party.

Lastly, Poulami's mother being a rural woman without internet connectivity cannot thank each one of you personally. But she and her family will be ever grateful to each one of you for lifetime. She invited all of you to visit her house and meet our little Poulami. One of her sentence stuck me "I am unlucky that I do not have the means to take care of my injured daughter, but I am lucky that God came in the form of such well-wishers to help my child."

A BIG THANK U to all of you & of course Milaap. :)









A week back, Poulami’s mother called me and informed that the surgery went well. A day before the surgery – end of July, her purse was stolen in Sealdah railway station. As her mobile was lost, she was not reachable. Her new mobile no. is 9051 864 477.

Poulami is doing well and joined back school. She is going out to play too. Her photos with the new hand below. Expense breakup follows:
28th May = Rs. 1,20,000 (advance payment for the imported hand)
25th July = Rs. 1,64,890
Total expenses = Rs. 2,84,890.

In the last moment it seems Endolite gave few% discount and then with the newspaper articles there were other kind donation. Poulami’s mother said the total amount will be around Rs. 1 lakh which will be kept in a FD for the next hand. This hand will last 10 years only. At the age of 18, she will be requiring another hand that will last life time. It will cost Rs. 16 lakhs.

As per Poulami's mother - the July 26th article of Anandabazar is fabricated and had lot of facts that are not true. The reality for the family remains harsh and there was no benefits extended - they were used more as a propaganda of a political party.

Lastly, Poulami's mother being a rural woman without internet connectivity cannot thank each one of you personally. But she and her family will be ever grateful to each one of you for lifetime. She invited all of you to visit her house and meet our little Poulami. One of her sentence stuck me "I am unlucky that I do not have the means to take care of my injured daughter, but I am lucky that God came in the form of such well-wishers to help my child."

A BIG THANK U to all of you & of course Milaap. :)









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Rs.132,782 raised

Goal: Rs.162,000

Beneficiary: Poulami Halder info_outline

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Sumitendra donated $100

This is my 2nd instalment. I just spoke to Poulami's mother over the phone. An exceptionally strong woman. I hope we reach our target amount. I am not on FB, but have sent the link to this site to all my Bengali friends.

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