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An Accident Almost Took My Brother’s Life Away. Help Me Save Him

If you knew Akbar Ali, you would agree that he is a kind, friendly and decent man, who lives up to his name (Akbar means ‘great’). And that he loves animals, especially cats. But what you would find striking about him would be his commitment to his family. He is a responsible son and a loving brother. My name is Arjuman, and as his sister, I can see the affection in his eyes even now – when he is battling for his life in the ICU and cannot speak a word.



The day our lives took a turn for the worst
I remember the night very clearly. I had just uploaded his profile on a matrimonial website to look for potential matches. Akbar was very happy. Mom, dad, I - we were all very happy. Right after dinner, Akbar said he had to go out to get his bike checked. We thought nothing of it – he would always return home early, no matter what. But only that day he didn’t.


Minutes later, we got a phone call informing us that he had been in an accident and that things looked bad. His bike had crashed on the metal barricades and he had gone sliding across the footpath, grievously injuring himself. I remember a mixed feeling of chaos and grief taking over me when I learnt what happened to him. Mom and Dad were too shocked to say anything. But it was just the beginning.

When we saw him, he was bleeding from everywhere. At that point, we were not sure if he would survive. We took him from hospital to hospital, trying to get him admitted. We were refused admission in many hospitals because they thought it was too serious a case for them to take up. Finally, he was admitted at Apollo Hospital, Bangalore, where he has been for the last 50 days.
Akbar needs constant supervision or he will not survive
He has been operated on for four times already. There was a swelling in his brain and they had to remove a part of his skull to lessen the pressure. He even survived a major brain stroke. I have seen him evolve from a near-vegetative state (when he was in a coma for the first two weeks) to a point where he can understand what we are telling him. But his problems have not gone away fully – he is not fully conscious. He cannot swallow food on his own, and the risk of blood clots forming in his windpipe can potentially choke him. As much as it pains us, he needs constant care that we cannot afford anymore.

He is helpless and so are we
The doctors have instructed us to keep talking to him; they say that will bring him back to life. So that’s what we do now – pretend to be happy- so that our Akbar comes back to us.


"I bring my 2 year-old son to the hospital every day because my brother really loved him. But my son gets scared when he sees his beloved uncle covered in tubes. And I can sense that Akbar gets upset when his nephew backs away from him. My parents are devastated and completely broken from the inside, but we manage to keep a smiling façade on. For our Akbar, for him to be all right."

How you can help
Akbar needs to be in the hospital for one more month and needs two more major surgeries. After that, he needs medical care at home, which includes hiring private nurses for him. My parents and I have spent nearly Rs 14 lakh on his medical expenses alone. We already spent all the money that we had saved for his wedding. My dad is now selling off things at home to pool money – precious things he had collected for over 45 years. Our house is mortgaged. Our finances are dipping but we want to save Akbar at any cost. He is the light of our lives, even in this darkness. Please help us save him.
Clinical Summary By Dr. Arun Naik, Chief Neuro Surgeon at Apollo - 2
Clinical Summary By Dr. Arun Naik, Chief Neuro Surgeon at Apollo - 2
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Clinical Summary By Dr. Arun Naik, Chief Neuro Surgeon at Apollo - 1
Clinical Summary By Dr. Arun Naik, Chief Neuro Surgeon at Apollo - 1
Running monthly treatment expenses exceed Rs. 8 lacs. 6 months to go!
Running monthly treatment expenses exceed Rs. 8 lacs. 6 months to go!
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26th September 2018
Dear Supporters,

I am rejoiced with the love and support given to my brother Akbar.

I would like to inform you that Ali is better than before and is continuing his treatment in neurology, rehab, physiotherapy, occupational therapy and Ayurveda. His left hand is still paralyzed. His leg is being given special priority since the response is well. As per the doctors, it will take another 3-4 months for him to have a full recovery.

I am very hopeful of his complete recovery. A heartfelt thank you to all of you for such immense support and love. Will keep you posted.

Regards,
Arjuman
Dear Supporters,

I am rejoiced with the love and support given to my brother Akbar.

I would like to inform you that Ali is better than before and is continuing his treatment in neurology, rehab, physiotherapy, occupational therapy and Ayurveda. His left hand is still paralyzed. His leg is being given special priority since the response is well. As per the doctors, it will take another 3-4 months for him to have a full recovery.

I am very hopeful of his complete recovery. A heartfelt thank you to all of you for such immense support and love. Will keep you posted.

Regards,
Arjuman
5th September 2018
Hi All,

I am glad to inform you that we have left for home. Now we are continuing Akbar Ali's treatment / therapies at the convenience of our home. All this was possible with your prayers and contributions. Many thanks for all your help.

Congratulations for Akbar Ali for making it this far. He has been through so much.... Now, we celebrate every moment with him...

Here is us now and a BIG THANK YOU for Milaap and 2367 supporters.



I am actively looking out for treatment options for his left elbow. Diagnosed of heterotopic ossification, he continues to have unbearable pain in his left arm. If you know anyone who can treat this condition, kindly reach me at arjuman.ahad@gmail.com
Hi All,

I am glad to inform you that we have left for home. Now we are continuing Akbar Ali's treatment / therapies at the convenience of our home. All this was possible with your prayers and contributions. Many thanks for all your help.

Congratulations for Akbar Ali for making it this far. He has been through so much.... Now, we celebrate every moment with him...

Here is us now and a BIG THANK YOU for Milaap and 2367 supporters.



I am actively looking out for treatment options for his left elbow. Diagnosed of heterotopic ossification, he continues to have unbearable pain in his left arm. If you know anyone who can treat this condition, kindly reach me at arjuman.ahad@gmail.com
10th August 2018
Dear Supporters,

Thank you so much for the wonderful support you have shown towards Akbar's health.

Currently, we are staying at a hotel nearby the hospital so that we are in the close vicinity of the hospital. He has responded well to the treatment and we are glad to see the speed at which he has recovered from last few days.

However, his left side of the body - left eye and left, is still paralysed. Also, in the last two weeks he faced seizures for which doctors have prescribed high-dosage medication.

He will have to undergo the rehabilitation procedure for the coming weeks. Doctors are of the opinion that there are good chances of recovery as his health has improvised from last couple of days.

Please pray for his health and speedy recovery. Thank you once again.
Regards,
Arjuman Amjad 
Dear Supporters,

Thank you so much for the wonderful support you have shown towards Akbar's health.

Currently, we are staying at a hotel nearby the hospital so that we are in the close vicinity of the hospital. He has responded well to the treatment and we are glad to see the speed at which he has recovered from last few days.

However, his left side of the body - left eye and left, is still paralysed. Also, in the last two weeks he faced seizures for which doctors have prescribed high-dosage medication.

He will have to undergo the rehabilitation procedure for the coming weeks. Doctors are of the opinion that there are good chances of recovery as his health has improvised from last couple of days.

Please pray for his health and speedy recovery. Thank you once again.
Regards,
Arjuman Amjad 
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